Yep… Your New Year Resolutions are Worthless.
It's that time of year again where we take stock of our poor performance from last year and write down blissful wishes for what we want to make happen this year.
It actually a pretty worthwless activity...
From joining a new gym to going to church more to drinking less -- whatever you resolve come New Years has a 78% chance of ultimately failing. That's almost everybody!
I didn't make that up. That's what a recent international study of almost a thousand people indicated.
Just like we have been trained to do nice things for people around Christmas even though we act like inconsiderate jerks the rest of the year, so we have also trained ourselves to pause ever so briefly at the beginning of each year to wish we could do a few things differently in the coming year.
And it's a worthless waste of time for 8 out of 10 of us.
And while I am on the subject, why are we still talking about 3-year and 5-year plans when we can't get this yearly thing figured out? Seems like a bunch of silly nonsense.
Seriously, are we committed to real change? Real sacrificial "it hurts like hell" change.
We don't even apply the same level of respect to our own goals as we do the dudes we watch on ESPN.
We respect an obsessive work ethic that makes an all star like Michael Jordan sink 100 free-throws in a row before leaving practice. We marvel at the obscene practice put in by perfectionists like Tiger Woods who practice distance putting at 3 and 10 foot intervals for hours a day.
And yet when it comes to putting in a little more effort for ourselves, we tend to be the first to come up with excuses (good ones too). And the older we get, the more experience we gain explaining why our failure was really a good thing.
Aren't you tired of mediocrity? Of being an "almost all-star"?
Are you willing to do something about it? To change?
Are you willing to:
- Connect your goal with a larger mision in life... (turn "making more money" into "helping a small company flourish")
- Construct your goal into a series of smaller monthly milestones... (turn big deadlines into a series of progressive tasks)
If so, you might be ready to see breakthrough this year. This might be the year of YOU... ALL of the 22% who accomplished their annual goals noted that these two were the two primary drivers for their success -- passion and planning.
It's amazing what you can do when you really want something more for yourself.
You might just change the world.